Wednesday, December 7, 2016

How To Resolve Conflicts With Parents If You Are Gay - Video Dailymotion

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Thursday, November 17, 2016

Get Rich By Completing Everything In Your Life - Gay Coaching For Gay Men Over 40 - Video Dailymotion

Get Rich By Completing Everything In Your Life - Gay Coaching For Gay Men Over 40 - Video Dailymotion: ► As a gay man, you deserve love and happiness. Love doesn't bite! ► Meet Paul's clients and fall in love: http://www.PaulAngelo.com ►Join Paul's FB fans: http://FB.com/PaulAngeloPage ►Join his email list: http://www.PaulAngelo.com ►Get summary/quotes: http://paulangelo.tumblr.com ►Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gaylife.paulangelo ►Gay Life Mastery: http://gaylifemastery.blogspot.com/ ►LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gaymatchmaker ►Twitter: https://twitter.com/gaycoach ► Paul Angelo is a gay matchmaker and a relationship coach working exclusively with gay professional men over 40 who are ready for a serious relationship and marriage. By 2016, Paul has spent over 7,000 hours coaching and guiding his clients in the areas of gay dating and relationships. Paul is the creator of multiple video-based coaching programs available exclusively to his clients. Paul’s contribution to the world of gay psychology includes the development of a brand new gay philosophy and a brand new framework for gay sexuality that simplifies dating, creates commitment and monogamy. ► Video Summary: How Gay Men Get Wealthy By Completing All Projects In Life

Thursday, October 20, 2016

What Death Can Teach Us About Gay Life And How To Get Your Life Back

How to rest in peace instead of resting in regret!
Life has a beginning and life has an end.

And in between ideally you’d work on yourself to become a better, stronger person - so that you can achieve your dreams, so that you can have destiny that is fulfilled, so that you can have a sense of accomplishment, fulfillment and happiness and so that when you are dead - on your thumb stone, you have something to write about that symbolized who you were, what you stood for and what you fought for.

Tuesday, October 11, 2016

How to move on from a lingering breakup in gay relationships and gay life. Expert gay coaching for gay men over 40.



Introduction
The biggest challenge in any gay man’s life after 40 will be moving on from past relationships and creating a clean slate for new ones. Many clients I work with, who are looking to create new relationships, are still holding on to their ex-boyfriends even after many years have passed.
In this article you will understand why breaking up is difficult and you will become aware of your automatic patterns from childhood that make some breakups very difficult to let go of.
I will also teach you a powerful method for emotional processing that very few psychologists and coaches understand.
In this article you will get a powerful method to let go of your negative feelings after a lingering breakup. You will learn how to create a clean slate for your new relationship. You will also learn how to stop the comparing and the contrasting of new dates with past lovers.  You will also discover how to stop the analysis-paralysis of the old relationship so that you can finally say good bye.
You will learn how to create a fresh start where the past stays in the past and the future is filled with possibilities and opportunities for new love and new excitement.

Saturday, April 30, 2016

Tips For Strength In Gay Life Instead Of Taking Things Personally



Paul's Comments:

I think that gay men take things personally because they are more sensitive. The sensitivity comes from the negative experiences of meeting and interacting with other gay men socially and inside romantic relationships.

Breakups, rejections, criticisms during interactions can deregulate any gay man emotionally, even the strongest one.

Most gay men are “on guard”. We are more imbalanced emotionally than straight people. Whenever someone offers feedback, we often leash out on them, we get personal, we attack them or we shut down and internalize the comments.

It all starts with connecting the criticism to our identity. This is called internalization. When someone makes negative comments, we assume that they are true and we “swallow” those comments like food even though they are not true.

Then, after a few days or weeks we become angry at ourselves for accepting those negative comments (as opposed to fighting back) and we transfer our anger onto the gay men around us. This is why many gay men are angry all the time. It is a toxic cycle.


Tuesday, March 1, 2016

Successful Gay Men After 40 Need More Nurturing And Self-Love To Overcome Gay Dating And Relationship Anxieties, Fears And Rejections


Main Points:
  • Why nurturing is the missing link in dating, relationships and mental health.
  • How strong gay men mask their wounds with logic and success and sabotage their love life.
  • How nurturing creates social openness and heals social anxieties for gay men.
  • How nurturing opens your heart for trust, authentic sharing and disclosure.
Gay dating for men over 40 can create disappointments and frustrations even for the strongest and smartest of men. Strong gay men over 40 can benefit more from self-nurturing than younger gay men because of the nature of masculinity which with age can create rigidity, crustiness and stubbornness as protection against rejections, anxieties and disappointments.
Nurturing for the smart and strong gay men is more important than acquiring knowledge and achieving goals because nurturing creates the happy and nonjudgmental attitude towards life and other gay men. The gay men who receive very little nurturing from parents and themselves, often end up bitter, judgmental and develop fears of intimacy with others.
This video and article will help you see if you have received enough nurturing in your life and how you can create more of it today and open your heart and mind to more dating and more love.